What Should a Stellar Parenting Plan Include?

Every paternity action or divorce involving minor children in Florida must establish a Parenting Plan. But what exactly is a Parenting Plan and what should a good one include? A parenting plan is a legally binding document that governs all rules that the parties must follow regarding parental responsibility and time-sharing in all child-related matters. Parties can establish a Parenting Plan through agreement (usually following negotiations or a formal mediation), or by presenting evidence at trial, resulting in a court order by the Judge. All terms and conditions in the resulting Parenting Plan must be in the children’s best interests.

Florida Statute §61.13(2)(b) provides a basis for what a court established or a court approved Parenting Plan must contain:

1) a description in adequate detail of how the parents will share and be responsible for the daily tasks associated with the upbringing of the child.

2) a time-sharing schedule that specifies the time the child will spend with each parent.

3) A designation of which parent (or both) will be responsible for healthcare, school-related matters, and other activities.

4) A detailed description of the methods and technologies each parent will use to communicate with the child.

5) The location of exchange of the child for time-sharing purposes.

These provide what, at a minimum, needs to be included for a valid parenting plan, however it’s important to understand that a parenting plan can be as detailed as the parties want to make it. Often times, having a detail oriented plan can avoid future uncertainty and ambiguity and reduce the risk of parties rushing back to court to litigate issues. Parties should keep in mind that as the children grow, the plan should grow with them. Children may not be school aged at the time the Parenting Plan is prepared, but a stellar parenting plan will plan for and address issues ahead of time. Good parenting plans include specification of how the co-parents will communicate with each other, details regarding travel and transportation, choice of activities and payment for extra-curricular activities, which parent’s address will be used for school zone purposes, detailed holiday time-sharing plans (including holidays and events that may be important to your specific family), and a procedure for vacation travel and planning with the children. You should discuss your family’s specific needs with your attorney to establish a Parenting Plan that works the best for you.

Contact Cody Law in St. Augustine Florida if you’d like help navigating a Florida family law issue and designing a parenting plan that addresses the needs of your family.

The Unresponsive Spouse: Default in a Dissolution of Marriage

When you initiate a divorce by filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the court, the initial pleadings must be served on your spose via process server. Timing is crucial when it comes to responding to the petition. In Florida the responding party has 20 days from service to file their response. But what happens when your spouse fails to participate in the divorce? If your spouse fails to respond to your divorce petition, you may be wondering what happens next. At Cody Law, we aim to guide you through each step in the process and keep you informed and educated along the way.

What Happens Now?

The first step, after the 20 day period has elapsed with no response, is to obtain a Clerk’s default. From there, once defaulted, the case will proceed without your spouse’s input. The court will require a final hearing in order to enter the Final Default Judgment. The relief you requested is not automatic, just because your spouse has been defaulted however. The court will not grant any requests that are unreasonable, even without the other party’s participation. Even if your spouse does not participate, you will still need to present evidence to the judge and testimony in support of your requests for relief. Depending on your individual situation, the court will need to determine each of the following issues, without your spouse’s input. :

• Division of Assets and Debts: Under Florida’s equitable rules, marital assets and debts are divided “fairly” although not necessarily equally. If you proposed a division of assets in your petition, the judge may follow your proposal as long as it is reasonable. The judge however has discretion to modify the proposed division if it is unfair or does not meet requirements under the law.

• Alimony: If you requested alimony in your petition, you will need to present evidence to the judge showing that you have a need for alimony and that the other spouse has ability to pay. The court can award alimony without the other spouse’s input so long as sufficient evidence is presented showing that alimony is necessary in your case.

• Parental Responsibility, Timesharing and Child Support: Even in a default situation, where there are minor children involved, the court must determine parental responsibility, timesharing, and child support based upon the best interests of the child. Child support is calculated under the Florida child support guidelines contained under Florida Statute 61.30, using the spouses’ financial information and the amount of overnights awarded to calculate the support amount. You should provide your financial affidavit to the court. If your spouse fails to provide financial information, the court may estimate their income based on available evidence.

  Does Not Responding Mean We Stay Married?

  A common misconception is that if a party just doesn’t respond then the divorce can’t happen. Florida is a no-fault divorce state, which means that the court only requires proof that the marriage is irretrievably broken in order to grant the divorce. As long as all procedural requirements are followed, the judge will enter the divorce, even without the other spouse’s participation.

  Even if your spouse is not participating in your divorce, you still need to present your case to the judge and ensure that your requests align with Florida Law. If you have questions about divorce or obtaining a default divorce in Florida, contact our office to schedule a consultation.