The Unresponsive Spouse: Default in a Dissolution of Marriage

When you initiate a divorce by filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the court, the initial pleadings must be served on your spose via process server. Timing is crucial when it comes to responding to the petition. In Florida the responding party has 20 days from service to file their response. But what happens when your spouse fails to participate in the divorce? If your spouse fails to respond to your divorce petition, you may be wondering what happens next. At Cody Law, we aim to guide you through each step in the process and keep you informed and educated along the way.

What Happens Now?

The first step, after the 20 day period has elapsed with no response, is to obtain a Clerk’s default. From there, once defaulted, the case will proceed without your spouse’s input. The court will require a final hearing in order to enter the Final Default Judgment. The relief you requested is not automatic, just because your spouse has been defaulted however. The court will not grant any requests that are unreasonable, even without the other party’s participation. Even if your spouse does not participate, you will still need to present evidence to the judge and testimony in support of your requests for relief. Depending on your individual situation, the court will need to determine each of the following issues, without your spouse’s input. :

• Division of Assets and Debts: Under Florida’s equitable rules, marital assets and debts are divided “fairly” although not necessarily equally. If you proposed a division of assets in your petition, the judge may follow your proposal as long as it is reasonable. The judge however has discretion to modify the proposed division if it is unfair or does not meet requirements under the law.

• Alimony: If you requested alimony in your petition, you will need to present evidence to the judge showing that you have a need for alimony and that the other spouse has ability to pay. The court can award alimony without the other spouse’s input so long as sufficient evidence is presented showing that alimony is necessary in your case.

• Parental Responsibility, Timesharing and Child Support: Even in a default situation, where there are minor children involved, the court must determine parental responsibility, timesharing, and child support based upon the best interests of the child. Child support is calculated under the Florida child support guidelines contained under Florida Statute 61.30, using the spouses’ financial information and the amount of overnights awarded to calculate the support amount. You should provide your financial affidavit to the court. If your spouse fails to provide financial information, the court may estimate their income based on available evidence.

  Does Not Responding Mean We Stay Married?

  A common misconception is that if a party just doesn’t respond then the divorce can’t happen. Florida is a no-fault divorce state, which means that the court only requires proof that the marriage is irretrievably broken in order to grant the divorce. As long as all procedural requirements are followed, the judge will enter the divorce, even without the other spouse’s participation.

  Even if your spouse is not participating in your divorce, you still need to present your case to the judge and ensure that your requests align with Florida Law. If you have questions about divorce or obtaining a default divorce in Florida, contact our office to schedule a consultation.

Go Away and Leave Me Alone: Florida Injunctions for Protection

An Injunction (sometimes referred to as a restraining order) is a Court Order which directs a person not to have contact with another. An Injunction can prevent abuse and threats of abuse and can prevent an abuser from contacting or coming near a victim. Florida has various forms of injunction available:

• Domestic Violence Injunction: This applies to people who live in the same household or who have children with each other. “Family” can include a spouse, an intimate partner who you live with but are not married to, blood relatives, adopted children, step parents or step children.

• Dating Violence Injunction: This applies to people who are or have been in an intimate or dating relationship and who have interacted with their abuser within the six months prior to filing the petition for injunction.

• Sexual Violence Injunction: This applies to people who do not live together or share children together but when a sexual battery has been committed and reported to law enforcement.

• Repeat Violence Injunction: This applies when none of the other categories of relationship (i.e. Domestic, dating, or sexual) apply. This type of injunction can be used between neighbors, coworkers, former friends etc. For this type of injunction to apply there must have been at least two incidents of physical violence, threats, or stalking and one or more incident must have occurred within the six months prior to filing the petition for injunction.

• Stalking Injunction: These are intended to protect a person from being followed, harassed, or cyberstalked by another person. For this type of injunction there does not need to have been any prior relationship (this can apply to persons such as former friends, acquaintances, neighbors, or coworkers etc.). Florida defines stalking as “Willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly following, harassing, or cyberstalking another person.” Harassment is defined as “engaging in a course of conduct that causes substantial emotional distress and serves no legitimate purpose.” Cyberstalking is defined as “repeated, unwanted online contact or surveillance that results in distress to the person targeted.”

Once the correct type of injunction is determined, the process is initiated by the filing of a Petition for Injunction. The injunction process is designed to be accessible to parties with and without counsel, so an unrepresented individual can go to the family law department of the County Courthouse and access the forms to complete and file, during business hours. If the incident occurs outside of business hours then abuse should be reported to law enforcement, who can contact the clerk if it is determined an injunction is needed. Although the process is accessible with or without counsel, having representation throughout the process can be beneficial in ensuring you obtain the protection that is necessary.

When the forms are completed and submitted to the Clerk, a determination can be made immediately of whether a temporary injunction will issue. If a temporary injunction is entered by the judge, the violator will be served a copy of the petition, notice of hearing and the temporary injunction. A hearing on the injunction will be set within 15 days. The hearing will be evidentiary, meaning evidence can be admitted and testimony offered. Having experienced counsel to represent your interests can be extremely beneficial during the hearing, to make sure you can show the judge the required elements to enter the injunction on a permanent basis. Counsel can also facilitate a possible consent agreement with the other party and/or their counsel so that a hearing may not be necessary to obtain the relief sought.

Contact Cody Law in St. Augustine, Florida to learn more about the process and for guidance in obtaining an injunction for protection.

Should I Move Out of the Marital Home?

During a Florida divorce many people are faced with the conundrum of whether to stay in the marital home. While there is clear-cut answer to this question there are several factors that should be considered in reaching a decision:

Safety

The first consideration should always be any personal safety risks involved in continuing to cohabitate in the family home. If the environment is unsafe it is important to get out of the situation and find other accommodations immediately.

Are There Minor Children Involved?

If there are minor children of the marriage, it may not be ideal to move out of the family home until the court enters a temporary or permanent parenting plan, outlining how each parent will split time with the children. If you need to move out prior to an official order on timesharing, you should at a minimum have an informal arrangement agreement in place with your spouse for each parent to maintain timesharing with the minor children. Moving out could potentially have an impact on the Judge’s decision on parental responsibility and timesharing, if your case makes it to trial. The Judge will consider the reasons for leaving the home and your continued contact or lack of contact with the children following the move.

Do You Intend to Keep the Marital Home?

If you plan to keep the marital home, moving out may not be in your best interest and the court could construe the move as abandonment.  If it’s likely you and your spouse will fight over who should be awarded the home, staying under one roof may be helpful in maintaining a strong claim to the property.

Short Term Expenses

Staying under one roof has it’s advantages.  While it could be uncomfortable to live together during the divorce, it will keep your short term costs lower.  unless you have friends or family who are willing to let you stay with them at no cost, you will most likely need to pay rent, utilities and other living expenses on a new living space, in addition to costs on your marital home. Consider your resources and whether moving out during the divorce is feasible.

Access to Personal Items in the Home

Moving out of the marital home will limit your access to and control of items of personal property within the home. If you leave the home you should make a list of items of personal property and photograph/video items in the home to help with division of marital assets.

Ultimately, there are many factors that should be taken into consideration when making the decision of whether or not to remain in the marital home. Cody Law can help guide you in making this difficult decision. Call or e-mail us for a consultation.